Staying focused and motivated to accomplish a fitness goal
is extremely difficult. This is true for even the most advanced and
knowledgeable athletes and professionals in the health and fitness
industry. Don’t let what you see on
social media fool you. Everyone
struggles and no one is perfect.
The difference between those who accomplish goals and those
who do not is simply perseverance and resilience. In other words, those who accomplish their
goals keep their eye on the target and recognize that there will be bumps in the
road. They do not become overly discouraged
when things don’t go as planned or they have a bad day. They adapt and overcome. There is no such thing as accomplishing a goal
without some type of challenge, right?
In contrast, those who fail often become extremely discouraged
when things don’t go their way, or they make a decision that is contrary to the
goal they’ve set. They blame failure on their external environment instead of demonstrating
individual responsibility and ownership.
Often, the goal is set aside “for a better time,” or perhaps, eliminated
entirely. Fitness goals fall victim to
this mentality often as they are often viewed individually as extracurricular
and not priority when, in fact, health and fitness should be an important part
of daily life for everyone. After all,
we have one body with a very short time to live.
How Fitness and
Nutrition Coaching Can Help You
Success and failure are not so black and white. Many of us fall in the middle somewhere. We want to be successful and really try but become distracted with life and have the propensity to yo-yo in and out of a goal we’ve set for ourselves. As far as fitness and nutrition is concerned, this is where acoach can make a major difference and keep your focused and accountable to yourself.
Hiring someone to help guide you on your fitness journey does indicate to others you do not know what you are doing or cannot complete a goal you set for yourself without help. Hiring a coach demonstrates that you are truly committed to your goal and will achieve it quickly, safely, and sustain it going forward. After all, your health is an investment not an expense.
Our core business at Reignite Fitness is online/virtual fitness
and nutrition coaching. We coach individuals of all ages and fitness levels and
limit the number of clients we work with at any given time. We set limits
because we believe that Reignite Fitness clients require specialized attention
and deserve dedicated, personalized time from our coaches in order to be
successful. In other words, we do not
use a cookie cutter approach with our coaching services and the fitness and
nutrition programming we develop individually for each client.
Our coaches tailor plans for clients individually based on
body type, age, and overall goals. We also consider personal and professional
environments of each client, resources readily available to them in or near
their homes, and the type of programming they may already enjoy. We offer three
baseline coaching packages:
RF Lifestyle – Our most basic program and tailored for individuals who wants to live a more active, healthy, and fitness-oriented life. You will work directly with a Reignite Fitness Coach to establish specific fitness and nutrition goals that can be achieved over the course of 6-12 weeks.
RF Fitness and Body Composition Optimization – A mid-level program tailored for clients who want to improve their overall fitness with a specific focus on body composition and visual improvement. Clients involved in this program may have a desire to build muscle, lose fat, or both to achieve a desired aesthetic and athletic look.
RF Contest Preparation – Designed for clients who compete or wish to compete in competitions such as bodybuilding, physique (men’s physique, classic physique, women’s physique), figure, fitness, bikini, and other categories. The program is completely comprehensive and designed to follow clients from the first day of preparation to the stage.
At a minimum, our clients receive the following services
with each baseline package:
No-cost individual assessment
Individualized nutrition and diet plan
Individualized exercise program
Nutritional supplement guidance
24/7 coaching with recurring weekly check-ins
The cost for each package varies and is based on program
duration and level of customization. Most of our clients select eight-week
programs and spend less than $300. To
put this into context, a personal trainer, on average, charges $60 per hour. At
this price, you’d complete only five sessions with a personal trainer for the
same price we charge for eight weeks of coaching. Moreover, with a personal
trainer you are not getting holistic services programmed around you and your
specific goals. They are more concerned about assisting you with your exercise
routine at the gym and do not address other important aspects of your overall
fitness – the most important being diet and nutrition.
How You Can Get
Started with Us
If you feel that our coaching services are right for you, or
you want to learn more, please complete the form on our coaching page
here: www.reignite.fitness/coaching. By completing the form, you are simply
telling us that you have some level of interest in our services and desire a
no-cost consultation with one of our coaches. Our coaches will generally reach
out to set-up a time to talk approximately 24-48 hours after the form is
Should you desire to become part of the Reignite Fitness family, we will work with you as a member of your team to help you realize your nutrition and fitness goals while ultimately improving your overall health. Our clients, like the one below, experience real results that can be sustained over the long term, and you can too!
I became interested in exercise and fitness as a young teen. While I had been involved in sports up to that point, particularly baseball, football, and golf, my first real exposure to the weight room was at 14 years old. As a member of the eighth-grade football team, I regularly interacted with high school coaches and players who encouraged us young guys to get bigger and stronger prior to entering the high school gridiron ranks. As an impressionable teen, I obliged and frequented the high school weight room to participate in the same strength training program as the older guys.
From day one, I fell in love with the grind and made it a priority almost every day. Soon thereafter, I began consuming as much literature as possible to learn how I could optimize my workouts to become as big and strong as possible. At 14, my primary concern was learning how to properly move as much weight as possible and what dietary supplements I could get my hands on to give me an edge. The last thing I thought about was nutrition and how food intake impacts performance. It sounds silly, right? Well, I can tell you that this 14-year-old mindset is a reality that many regular gym goers have and is a big reason why so many spend countless hours in the gym and do not achieve any notable progress. The fact is 80-90 percent of your performance and physique is direct result of diet and appropriate rest/recovery. The adage “you are what you eat” is certainly closer to the truth than you may realize. It wasn’t really until I was in my early to mid-20s that I realized the importance of understanding performance dieting and how to appropriately apply nutrition principles to optimize my performance and physique goals. I am certainly not implying that I was not educated in this area. What I am saying is that I was not applying my knowledge in a manner that supported my goals appropriately. More simply, there is a big difference between eating healthy and eating for performance.
Healthy Eating vs. Performance Dieting
To a certain extent, “healthy eating” is common knowledge. I think nine out of ten people could generally distinguish between healthy food choices and unhealthy food choices. The major difference between eating healthy and a performance diet is the goal one has established for his or herself. In the broadest sense, healthy eating centers on the concept of a balanced diet intended to maintain or improve overall health. The major focus of healthy eating is managing a healthy weight. A healthy eating plan:
Emphasizes fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and fat-free or low-fat milk and milk products
Includes lean meats, poultry, fish, beans, eggs, and nuts
Is low in saturated fats, trans fats, cholesterol, salt (sodium), and added sugars
Stays within your daily calorie needs
A healthy eating plan as described above typically includes three major meals (breakfast, lunch, dinner) and limited, but healthy, snacks in between meals if needed. Again, the major emphasis here is overall health and managing weight. While eating this way can certainly help performance and physique to a certain extent, you are less likely the achieve aspirational goals that would get your body on the cover of a magazine. Obviously, that is an extreme example of a goal, however, I am hoping you understand where I am going with this.
Like healthy eating, performance dieting is also designed to be healthy and friendly to the body. The basics concepts of a healthy eating plan are still part of performance eating. The biggest difference of the performance approach to diet is in the name – performance.
In lieu of simply focusing on overall health, performance dieting focuses on overall health and some aspect of performance improvement like functional strength, speed, agility, cardiovascular health, and body composition.
Major components of performance dieting include:
Total caloric intake
Macronutrient needs and partitioning
All the above considerations will vary from person to person, however, I will provide some basics in the follow paragraphs about how you can optimize each of these focus areas to improve your physique and overall performance.
Total Caloric Intake
A calorie is simply a unit and measure of energy. I am not going to get into the mathematical equation associated with the measure…just remember calories equal energy. As it pertains to an individual’s caloric intake and what level may be appropriate is totally dependent on the goal the individual has set for his or herself. In the broadest sense, if you want to lose weight you need to burn more calories than you consume. This is called caloric deficit. If you want to gain weight, you need to eat more calories than you burn. This is called caloric surplus. Lastly, if you want to maintain a given weight, you need to burn the same number of calories you consume. Makes sense, right? Most people have no idea how many calories they consume in a day, and some really don’t need to know or care because they are content with where they are in terms of performance, physique, weight, etc. For someone looking to achieve advanced or superior levels of performance and overall body composition, knowing how much energy you put into your body is critical.
A good starting point to determine how many calories you need for a certain goal is calculating your Basal Metabolic Rate (BMR).
In a nutshell, BMR is the minimum number of calories your organs need to function correctly while you perform no activity whatsoever. More simply, this is the amount of energy you need to lay in bed all day. There are several ways to calculate your BMR. You could go out and buy a fancy multi-function scale, or simply find a BMR calculator online. There are many online sources, however, I prefer the various nutrition and body calculators offered for free at www.bodybuilding.com. They have a simple BMR calculator here: https://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/bmr_calculator.htm.
Once you determine your BMR, you can more easily determine calorie levels appropriate for deficit, surplus and maintenance. While I cannot accurately tell you where your specific levels sit because everyone is different, just know that deficit is slightly above BMR, maintenance levels are higher than deficit, and surplus is higher than maintenance. To put this into perspective, my current BMR is 2011 calories. My deficit range based on my current activity is 2112-2500 calories; maintenance 2501-2700; and surplus 2,701 plus. As a reminder, these numbers are different for everyone. My activity level is low during the day as I spend a lot of time in an office setting. Most of my physical activity occurs in the gym. As such, my caloric intake must be adjusted to compensate my lack of activity during day based on whatever goal I’ve set for myself. For example, I may need to either drop my calories to the lower end of caloric deficit, add some extra cardio first thing in the morning, or both to lose weight. In contrast, to gain weight, I may only need to bump my calories slightly over my established maintenance level to slowly gain weight while maintaining my current level of activity. These strategies are different for everyone. The constant factor in all of this is determining appropriate energy consumption levels, and then monitoring those levels to accomplish a goal.
Macronutrient Needs and Partitioning
The three basic macronutrients are Protein, Carbohydrates, and Fat. All three play important rules in nutrition and performance.
Of all the macronutrients, protein is the most beneficial for the building and maintenance of lean muscle mass and fat loss. Yes, fat loss.
The reason protein is effective for weight loss is because of its thermic effect during digestion. This is known as the Thermic Effect of Feeding, or TEF. Protein is also the most satiating of the macronutrients. More simply, you feel fuller after eating protein rich foods. Put all these benefits together and protein is perfect for a diet, right? Bingo. As such, protein should form the foundation of your diet. At any given time, my protein intake accounts for 40-50 percent of my daily caloric intake.
Carbs are the devil, right? Wrong! Time after time studies have shown that low carbohydrate diets have no metabolic advantage over higher carb diets when protein intake is matched. In other words, eliminating carbs out of your diet and compensating with higher protein and fat intake will not help you melt off the fat. In fact, some studies show that you can lose weight faster by consuming a healthy amount of carbohydrates daily. Additionally, carbs have a higher TEF than fat and are the primary energy source your body uses when weight training. If you have low glycogen stores (stored carbohydrates), your training and recovery will be impaired.
Lastly, fats are important and should never be eliminated from your diet. Fats are important for regular hormonal function, especially testosterone. A good rule of thumb is that fats should never go below 20-30 percent of your daily caloric intake.
Considering what I’ve discussed about macronutrients, what should you do? After you’ve determined your level of protein intake, which should make up most of your daily calories, your carbohydrate and fat intake is not extremely significant in the grand scheme of things. For example, I am currently consuming 40 percent of my calories from protein, 30 percent carbs, and 30 percent fat. As I progress into my competitive season, I will likely move my protein in take to 50 percent, carbs 30 percent, and fats 20 percent. Get the gist? Adjust your macronutrients appropriately using protein as the foundation.
How important is meal timing? It is damn important.
Spreading calorie intake over multiple meals can help spike protein synthesis repeatedly throughout the day and keep your metabolism at an optimal level.
As it relates to protein, studies show that there is a maximum threshold your body can utilize and absorb to stimulate an anabolic response. These levels range from about 20g to 40g in one sitting. I recommend 4-6 meals per day based on schedule and overall preference. Ideally, eating every 2-3 hours is optimal with each meal containing between 20-40g of protein.
Of all the components of diet and nutrition, water intake is one that is not discussed enough.
Look folks…water is essential for survival. It helps your organs function normally, aids in digestion, and can also help increase metabolism and energy expenditure (calorie burn).
You may have heard that you should drink at least eight 8oz glasses of water per day, however, this is quite low if you are active and subscribe to a fit lifestyle. While water requirements differ based on sex, body size, age, lifestyle and other factors it is recommended that men drink about a gallon of water per day, and women drink about 3/4 gallon of water per day. If you are not drinking this much water, don’t fret! Protein shakes and other forms of fluid count, too (alcohol and other drinks that force fluid out don’t count. Sorry). The bottom line here is that you need to prioritize hydration just as much as you prioritize food.
Tools Available to Help
There are thousands upon thousands of tools commercially available to help you accomplish your fitness goals. There are so many, it is overwhelming. Below, I’ve provided the three that I have found to be most important for me, and a fourth and fifth you may consider if you want to save time and need additional help. Know that I do not officially endorse any of these products, aside from Reignite Fitness Coaching, nor do I receive any compensation from the companies the produce of supply these products. I use them because they work for me. It is that simple.
Calorie Logging/Tracking App – A reliable way to log and track food (energy/calories) is critical for achieving your fitness goals. There are many available for both IOS and Android users. I personally use MyFitnessPal. The app is extremely easy to use and contains at searchable database of more than 300,000,000 food items. In addition to general tracking of calories, the app tracks macronutrients and nutritional information for everything you log. You can also set bodyweight goals, macronutrient goals, and more. I use this app daily, especially when I am preparing for a competition.
Digital Food Scale – I do not advocate for one digital food scale over another, however, they are extremely important. As mentioned above, it is critical that you know what you are putting into your body and how much. When prepping meals, a food scale is handy, so you know exactly how much food you are eating and can appropriately log calories.
Digital Body Composition Scale with App – A digital body composition scale is extremely helpful to help you track and trend progress over the course of time. Achieving an exceptional physique does not come overnight. It can take many weeks, months, and even years (in some extreme cases) to accomplish a fitness goal. I personally use a scale by Renpho, albeit there are hundreds of other scales that do the same thing. In addition to body weight and body fat analysis, the scale analyzes muscle mass, bone mass, basal metabolism, protein, water, BMI and more. The scale comes with a handy mobile app that displays data and tracks the data over time.
Meal Prep Service – Paying for a meal prep service is an extra expense, however, it can save a tremendous amount of time in the kitchen preparing meals. On average, those who take fitness seriously spend about 10 hours a month in the kitchen preparing food. A meal prep service can almost eliminate the time you spend cooking and preparing food. I personally use Nutrition Solutions. The company is Veteran-owned and based out of Tampa, Florida. They ship across the U.S. The food is excellent and prepared for fitness-minded individuals and fitness competitors. Meals range from about $8.00 – $9.00 per meal and can be customized for your specific nutrition goals. I have tried other meal prep services, but Nutrition Solutions is the best around.
Online Coaching – Online fitness coaching has exploded over the last few years and has produced some amazing transformations. However, please know that there are many self-proclaimed “coaches” that have no experience or knowledge and simply want to turn a quick profit on a vulnerable client. There are many very good coaches out there, but many more who are not. Coaching can help you reach your goals if you find the right person. At Reignite Fitness, we offer limited spots for coaching. Unlike other online coaching services available, we do not believe in offering cooking cutter fitness and nutrition coaching plans. We tailor plans for clients individually based on body type, age, and overall goals. We also consider personal and professional environments of each client, resources readily available to them in or near their homes, and the type of programming they may already enjoy. The bottom line is that we do not offer some type of magical prescription. Our goal is to work with you as a member of your team to help you realize your nutrition and fitness goals while ultimately improving your overall health. If coaching is something that interests you, please visit https://reignite.fitness/coaching.
I hope you found this post to be educational, insightful, and value-added. My hope is that you learned something from reading this article and can apply it to your arsenal of knowledge as you continue to pursue your fitness goals. I look forward to hearing your comments, questions, and general feedback. If at any time you need to get in contact with us, please email firstname.lastname@example.org. Until next time, get after it!
If you were to take a moment and peruse online literature about fitness, you would likely come across witty keywords and phrases centered on intrinsic motivation and perseverance. There is so much of this shit out there; it makes me sick. It is almost like people need to be reminded how to accomplish their goals and need a little pep talk every day to function. Much of this proverbial vomit comes from self-proclaimed fitness experts that feel that they have the answer for you as it pertains to reaching your personal fitness goals via motivational malarkey, worthless step-by-step lists, and nebulous snippets of “advice” aimed to appease a laymen reader. Most of it is a steaming pile of excrement. Don’t get me wrong, there are some incredibly knowledgeable fitness gurus out there, but there are much more who are not.
Let me stop there for a minute and say that I indeed do not have a Ph.D. in nutritional science or exercise physiology, and I do not claim to be a health and fitness professional or motivational speaker. The truth of the matter is that I found the gym at 14-years-old. The minute I stepped into a gym, I felt safe…it was my place…a place to clear my mind and get to work. For me, the results are, and always have been icing on the cake, but competing, or getting bigger and stronger was never my motivation. With that said, I truly believe that online “noise” and relying on “professional advice” as a source of motivation to improve yourself is detrimental to overall progress. In no way does this mean that you should not educate yourself and learn how different exercise movements impact different muscles, how to perform exercises correctly, or in what way to adjust macronutrient intake to maximize results properly. I am all for learning new things and expanding my knowledge.
The bottom line is that we are all individuals with individual needs and perceptions of the environment around us. There is no hack or “one size fits all” solution to our mental or physical existence and what we deem a success. There is no external source of motivation that will sustain the test of time.
If you truly want to accomplish something, you are going to do it, and you are going to see it through. You may have some barriers that you need to overcome (we all do), but you will find a way to succeed. You won’t need assistance from a book or some online social media factotum who makes life look so easy and who makes you wonder what you are doing wrong. By the same token, if you are not committed to yourself, and rely on external sources of motivation, you will soon start making excuses why you will not be able to achieve your goals. I am certainly guilty of boarding the excuse train…we all are. It is easy to make a marriage, children, and a demanding professional career an excuse for not doing something for yourself. There are many other “excellent excuses” as well.
With that said, I want to offer the following thoughts on what works for me as it pertains to planting the seed of motivation and then ensuring strong roots take hold. I am not offering advice, just my thoughts. I believe that motivation is not a naturally sustaining phenomenon. Just think about it for a minute. Remember the last time you got excited about something and decided that you were going to go out there and take over the world? On the first day, you had goosebumps, energy, and were kicking ass and taking names. You felt the same way on the second day, but your energy levels were not quite as high as they were on the first day. On the third day, you got distracted, made an excuse for yourself, and decided to pick up where you left off the following day. On the fourth day, another excuse emerged, and then another, and another, and before you knew it you were telling yourself you would try again in a few months when the “time was right.” What went wrong? How did you fail?
Let’s swing back to my statement about the non-sustaining nature of motivation. Without discipline, a process, and rhythm, the scenario I described will happen every time you attempt to go after a personal goal. In other words, the key to sustaining motivation is viewing it as a process versus some supernatural force that should permeate every aspect of your existence. This approach, in my opinion, is even more critical if you already have a hectic personal and professional life. So how can motivation be looked at as a process? Let’s look at what I am saying a different way. Let’s pretend you want to start a company that manufactures basketballs. The goal is to create high-quality basketballs that consumers will purchase from retail locations who carry your product. To achieve your vision, you cannot merely wish the basketballs to appear, nor can you take a haphazard approach to producing basketballs by setting up shop in your garage. The only way to accomplish your goal is to implement a disciplined, tangible and realistic process that ensures the output of high-quality basketballs. If the motivation is to create basketballs, you need to find a real way to get there. So, let’s say you come up with this impressive and efficient manufacturing process to produce said basketballs. You’ve applied Lean, and Six Sigma management principles and you know your method is tight. Guess what? You are still going to pump out a certain percentage of basketballs that do not pass quality assurance/quality control standards. Does that mean your process is faulty? No. Every process has failures, and the only way to improve upon shortcomings is to accept them for what they are and implement appropriate mitigation strategies.
The same manufacturing example described can be applied to fitness motivation and sustaining a consistent output of motivation to achieve the desired result. Some of what I am referencing in this post is highlighted in my last piece titled “A Goal Without a Plan is Just a Wish.” If you have a few minutes to burn, I encourage you to check it out. The way I’ve approached process development for my personal fitness goals is first to identify what I want to achieve. With a goal in mind, I then developed a plan or process to keep myself accountable, and most importantly, I established a daily rhythm, more conventionally known as a routine. I am not just talking about a workout routine; I am talking about a life routine.
To honestly stay committed and motivated, I firmly believe that you must keep beating the drum, you must stay on task, and your daily rhythm must become second nature.
You must get to the point where you feel incomplete if you miss a workout or miss a meal. You must get to the point where you think you’ve failed if you don’t wake up when your alarm clock sounds in the wee hours of the morning while most of the world is still sleeping. That, in my opinion, is when you know you’ve turned the corner, you’ve established a rhythm, and true discipline is taking hold. With that said, you are still going to be bumps in the road…you will always come up against personal challenges, but you will know how to get past them, and you won’t need help from an external source to get you there.
Since I launched Reignite, I’ve swerved off the road many times. I’ve missed some workouts. I’ve fallen short on my daily caloric intake and macronutrient ratios. I’ve gone to bed too late and slept through my “workout” alarm only to be jostled out of bed by my “you better get your ass up now, or you are going to be late for work alarm.” I am not perfect. We are not perfect. The key is not to make excuses for the bumps and let them become consistent. I look at each missed workout or missed meal as an opportunity to get better…a chance to development process improvement strategies to avoid future defects and improve my pass/fail rate.
The overall goal is to have a significantly higher percentage of good days than bad days and to continue pursuing perfection while realizing perfection is impossible.
The only way to achieve that goal is through discipline, a process, and rhythm. Keep grinding my friends.
For as long as I can remember, I have attempted to establish a New Year’s resolution. It is something you are supposed to do, right? Let’s pick some big lofty goal, unrealistic or not, and tell everyone what we are going to accomplish during the new year. Lose weight…check, stop drinking…check, be a better parent…check, achieve a better work-life balance…check. Does this sound familiar? You are probably shaking your head yes. Don’t worry, as I said previously I am no stranger to New Year’s resolutions. Of all the years that I’ve tried to uphold a resolution contract to myself, I cannot recall one time that I ever wholly achieved my resolution goals. If I were to take a wild guess, I’d say most people are the same way.
There is always some excuse or some reason why we were not able to accomplish the goal we so energetically established for the new year. A life change, a career change, and unexpected problem or barrier…there is always something, right? I thought about this a lot today, especially after seeing so many new faces at the gym over the last few days. The gym is always a pleasant place to visit this time of the year. Oodles of new members pack every inch of the floor. They all look determined, motivated, and ready to get to work on achieving their individual fitness goals for the new year. As the days and weeks, progress, fewer and fewer of the newcomers are present until eventually they are almost all gone. I always wonder what happened; what stopped them from coming to the gym. I never judge as we all have our own lives, our priorities, and make our own decisions.
Often, I think New Year’s resolutions fail because we do not plan correctly and create systems of accountability. It is easy to say you want to improve your physical fitness, lose 10 pounds, run a marathon, or compete in Olympic lifting or bodybuilding, but it will never happen without a tangible and realistic plan.
To put it another way, no bank on the face of the earth will consider giving you a loan to start a business without a strong business plan, and without that credit, your dream of being a small business owner is dashed. The same can be said for individual fitness goals, or any goal for that matter – without a plan, there is no success.
Let’s say for example your goal is to lose 10 pounds. Bravo! You have a purpose! Now, what practical actions are you going to take to get there? Your answer may be to change your diet and start doing some exercise. Well, that’s good, but you need to go further. Based on your weight loss goal, what food do you need to eat, what is your appropriate macronutrient ratio, and caloric intake? How will your food intake need to be adjusted when you start exercising? How often should you be eating? How much water should you be drinking? How much sleep do you need? How will you keep yourself accountable? As you can see, just a simple goal of losing ten pounds can become quite complicated when we are talking about appropriate planning – and this is where most people become frustrated and eventually fail. I’ve been there…we’ve all been there.
With that said, I want to share with you some of the active steps I am taking to achieve my fitness goals this year. As mentioned in previous posts, my goal is to compete on the bodybuilding stage as a physique competitor in August.
Developed an initial 8-week workout routine as part of my build phase (This routine includes 20 minutes of cardio daily, and will be changed up for the second 8 weeks). You can view the workout here: Reignite_8WeekBuild
Established time of day workouts will be completed (5:00 a.m. – 6:15 a.m. Monday – Friday; 8:00 a.m. – 9:30 a.m. Saturday; Rest on Sunday)
Regular bedtime established for 9:30 p.m. – no exceptions.
Established a caloric intake of 3,090 calories per day using MyFitnessPal aimed at increasing bodyweight .5 pounds per week.
Established macronutrient ratio at approximately 45 percent carbohydrates (350g), 30 percent protein (250g), 25 percent fat (88g).
Became a member of a local healthy food kitchen. The kitchen prepares food from scratch based on dietary needs and delivers to the home on Tuesday and Friday mornings. To start, I will be receiving a total of 10 custom meals per week to help supplement my food intake during the day.
For the sake of brevity (I know this post is already long), I will stop there, but I think you probably get the point. A plan is crucial to the success of any goal. After your plan is developed, you must make good on your plan as change does not occur without action.
Once you invest the time in your plan and begin executing, your goal will become a priority in your life…and that is the recipe for success. After all, a goal without a plan is just a wish.
For those of you who have a goal for 2018, whether you call it a New Year’s resolution or not, make sure you have a realistic plan comprised of actionable steps to move the dial forward. Carefully designed and deliberate tactics win battles, and when you win battles, you win the war. Have patience, act, don’t quit, and win. Happy New Year!
This Christmas was the first time in as long as I can remember that I was not with family. It was not intended to be that way, but things happen…life happens. Luckily, I have some awesome friends that are always there when I need them. One friend graciously invited me to have Christmas dinner with his family last night.
I met him in college about ten years ago, and we’ve been friends ever since. When we first met, we were both in excellent shape. I had just completed a bodybuilding show about five months earlier and he as actively hitting the weights and training like a madman with his martial arts instructor. After sizing each other up in the classroom, we finally confronted each other. Our first conversation probably went something like “Hey man, where do you train? What supplements are you using?” A bromance in the making! Some of you reading this may have a similar story or may even be laughing right now because you know precisely the type of conversation I’m referencing.
Anyway, the guy is a great cook. For Christmas dinner, he served up an excellent roast, mashed potatoes, green beans, corn, and other holiday fixings. The meal came complete with music and good conversation. After dinner, we temporarily retreated to his outdoor balcony for a bullshit session and started talking about values and priorities. This particular talk is the reason for this post. The conversation kicked off with a short discussion about Jocko Willink. For those of you unfamiliar with Jocko, he is a former U.S. Navy Seal and probably one of the most motivational figures out there today. He has written several books and also has a podcast. Often, I listen to his podcast on the way to work in the morning. You can order his books and listen to his podcast here: http://jockopodcast.com/. After our brief chat about a dude way more bad ass than we could ever be, we started talking about ownership, and values.
Regarding ownership, we discussed owning our actions and decisions and not blaming others for heartache, hardship, and challenges. Often, it is easy to blame someone or something for a problem we are experiencing. Think about it for a minute. How many times have you blamed someone else for a challenge? How many times have you blamed your boss for not giving you a raise, or blamed your parents for some developmental issue? How many times have you scrolled through social media and looked at some of your friends achieving something great and then made an excuse for why you are not in the same position. Just think about it for a minute and a guarantee you can come up with at least ten examples within a minute or two.
The bottom line is that we (you, me, everyone) cannot control anything except ourselves. Our ideas, decisions, and actions are the only things we can control.
Ten years ago, for example, I was in the best shape of my life. I worked hard in the gym every day, ate the right foods, slept eight hours every night, and woke up early in the morning – often at 4:30 or 5:00 every day. When I moved away from that life to focus on my family and career that was MY decision, and it was the right decision. As a result of that decision, I cut back on my time in the gym, ate different foods, went to bed late, and woke up with just enough time to get ready for work. Over time, and although I never stopped going to the gym, my overall level of fitness declined. I made those decisions, and I own those decisions.
The next half of our discussion focused on values, which gave me the idea for this post. This part of the discussion started merely as a bitch session about parenting and how much of a pain in the ass it can be to deal with children. Don’t get me wrong…I love being a dad to my two beautiful children, but they can certainly push me to the edge sometimes. I’m sure most of you who are parents would agree. Anyway, my friend started talking about his 10-year-old son and a recent incident where he filled a duffle bag full of toys in preparation for a sleepover and then threw a fit because the bag was too heavy and he couldn’t carry it to the car. “If it is too heavy, take some toys out of the bag, son,” my friend said as he reflected on the duffle bag conundrum that occurred a few days earlier. “I don’t want too! I want to take everything with me!” his son replied. At that point, my friend said, he took his son by the arm, sat him down, and explained that “there is only so much one little boy can carry, and only the toys that he values most should stay in the bag.” After hearing about his son’s duffle bag fiasco, I immediately turned to my friend and said: “you know man, that is a good metaphor for value systems.” Think about it this way – the toys represent values, and the duffle bag represents a person. There are only so many things we can value at any given time, and we must prioritize those values appropriately. If we do not efficiently do this, the bag becomes too heavy, and we become a burden to ourselves which translates to an unhappy life. More directly, we cannot give a fuck about everything all the time. We need to be selective with our values, and go out there and get it done with 100 percent effort.
A set of healthy and manageable values drives discipline, and discipline drives success.
Being consciously aware of this is essential, but only half the battle. Regardless of the weight of the duffle bag, we still have to pick it up and move it – there is no change without action…every destination has a starting point.
First, I would like to welcome you to “Reigniting the Fire.” Before we get into the purpose of this blog, I want to make sure you know a little about me.
I do not like to get overly personal, but I will give you enough to know who I am. How’s that? My name is Jason Dangel and I am 33 years young. I am a proud father, U.S. Army Veteran, innovator and lifelong learner. My professional background is public relations/communications, and I have been in the field for nearly 14 years.
Aside from work and family, I am very passionate about health and fitness and even competed in amateur bodybuilding competitions – the last being almost nine years ago. Time flies, huh? I decided to write this blog to document my journey back to the stage. Yes…back to the stage. I can feel the eyes roll as I write this. You are probably thinking “here is another guy who feels so important that he needs to share his workouts and gym pics with the world. Sorry bro, I’m not going to read your blog. I see enough of this crap on Instagram.” I can assure you that I am not going to be the guy posting pictures and worthless content with 73 hashtags and 19 emojis.
The intent of this blog is to keep myself accountable, and hopefully inspire others. I want you to be with me every step of the way as I once again walk back onto the stage in 2018. You see, I believe that life can sometimes necessitate movement away from certain values and who we really are. When we move away from who we really are because of family, work, or other responsibilities we call that “sacrifices” or “concessions.” When I became a father and became increasingly busy with a challenging career, I made many personal sacrifices. Any responsible adult would. I put my family first, worked long hours to give them everything they could ever ask for, and hopefully provided a true north for my children. While I will always put my family above everything else, I believe it is my time to focus on me…become more disciplined, more focused, and to once again realize my passion again. There is no change or forward movement without action. Thank you for joining me on this journey.